Wednesday, January 7, 2015

What You Can Benefit From Meditation For Couples

By Stacey Burt


There is a reason why most people want to get stress out of their system. There are others who have fell ill because of it. While some relationships were devastated because of too much pressure and stress. It might be something that you will choose to ignore at first but sooner or later it has a way of coming back to you and it makes you say things that you never actually mean.

There are several ways that you can get rid of stress. But as a couple, you need to find things that you can do together. This is to not only get rid of all the disputes and unsolved issues but to strengthen your bond as well. And one way that you can fix all your issues is to undergo at least one process of meditation for couples.

Meditation has been existing for quite some time now. And it has proven itself in so many ways from improving some of the functions of the organs to ridding your brain of the turmoil that causes stress. It also has a lot of emotional benefits that it is usually recommended if you are feeling out of sorts.

Today, this is an activity that is not only for individual doing, it can also be a form of therapy for couples. More and more relationships have been healed and strengthened because people choose to do this activity together. If you are having marital problems and is undergoing counseling for it, you might want to try meditating together.

You have to remember that this is an activity which you both must participate on. If one is not really keen on doing it, you would just end up fighting again. And the therapy will have no effect in times like these. It is essential that both of you have the heart to do this.

One of the effects of the meditation process is that it can reduce the negative emotions that you are feeling. Another is that it gives you a clear head. So when you just went through a fight, meditating puts all things in perspective. And it also makes you think of a way to reach an agreement or reconcile.

Both of you need to find a place where you can meditate. As a prerequisite, this must be a space that is quite and free from distractions. If you opt to do this at home, you need to turn off all the devices including your phones. You can also turn on the answering machine. Power down the computers and try to turn off everything that might provide distractions to you while you are meditating.

The best position for the meditation is to sit in a cross legged position. Your back must be against each other so both of you will feel the others presence. And you both have to concentrate in your breathing so that the thoughts will be cleared.

Once you start the breathing, you will notice all the thoughts coming to focus. The process would do best if you just let the memories flow in to you. And then you should just observe as they slowly fade away and let the calmness take over you.




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